About six months ago, I wrote a post for this blog on Work-Life Balance vs. Work-Life Blur. In it, I shared two definitions of flexible workers: as ‘Integrators’ and ‘Boundary Keepers’. Boundary Keepers “keep things separate,” I wrote. Integrators “mix things up”.
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I was a Boundary Keeper, I said. I’d established a ‘traditional’ working pattern and hours, and I was pretty disciplined about sticking to it. My work didn’t really spill into my evenings and weekends, and I tried hard to fight distractions (sometimes friends and family!) in the day.
Six months on, and I’m done fighting. That’s not to say that I’ve let distractions into my working life, but that I see my working life in a different light - and it’s not always daylight.
I’m starting to embrace a more Integrator-like work-style. It sometimes finds me working in the evenings and on the weekends (like now!), but it also means that instead of fighting distractions in the day I can roll with them.
That’s the advice I’d like to share with you today: if you’re taking up flexible working, you’ve got to roll with it.
As a former Boundary Keeper - and a strict one at that - a personal call in the middle of the day was one of the worst things to happen to me. The phone would ring, and the ringtone might as well have announced “game over!”.
It’s perfectly normal, of course, to announce your working hours as roughly between 9am and 5pm, but what’s the point of flexible working, if you can’t be flexible? When the phone rings now, I pick up - and if I need to work a tiny bit later, I will.
For example, one day last week, I had lots on my to-do list and in my diary, including a couple of meetings. In between, I had to get some stuff done, so I popped into a coffee shop with my laptop. As soon as I did, I recognised someone I knew. Dang, I thought. Maybe he didn’t see me? But it was too late. He waved and came over.
In the past, I would have really struggled with the awkwardness of having to explain that although I was in the coffee shop I had a lot of work to do and I couldn’t really talk. But, that day, I thought, I could actually shuffle some things around. I could talk to this guy now, and catch up with my to-do list after my next meeting. Sure, that would eat into my evening, but I was only planning to watch TV anyway. This way, I could have a fortuitous coffee with a friend, get to my meeting on time and do all the work I wanted to do as well.
Of course, this isn’t always possible. Sometimes deadlines can’t be shifted. But for everything else, I don’t see 5pm as a ‘deadline’ any more. It’s more like a good time to stop, but it’s not a deadline: it’s a blurry line, if anything :-)
I think, at heart, I’m still a bit of a Boundary Keeper, but I’m a bit of an Integrator too, when the day calls for it. And that’s how I roll.
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